Hmmm...
I realize that I am new here, but
Fan you, Rate You, PRIOR to adding you?
Sure, I am into a pretty face, and nice skin, just like the rest of us. But the Fan thing really means something to me.
I can easily (almost) blindly rate a photo - and if it moves me, very quickly I will give it a 12. But many women here want the Fan first, prior to asking to connect to for friendship (or at least the allusion of friendship). This I have trouble with.
Fan says to me that I not only like you, but support your decisions, way of life, choices of cold cuts, something for crying out loud. How am I to know if I can be your fan if I don't know a thing about you? I am fans of some, but there is reason for it. To those that I am fans, they know why. It genuinely revolves around respect.
Some women are pretty weird around this concept. Most women don't want flesh freaks, then when a guy really wants to know something, treat them as a number. Many women here think that a guy's only objective is to get into a woman's pants? Well that's a tad hard if she's in Indonesia now isn't it. I suppose I could get the ticket... but based on my blonde hair, I am sure I would never make it back alive.
Ha!
Anywho, sorry, I won't fan without having a decent idea as if I want to be your fan. And sorry again, but this decision isn't solely based on your beautiful hair, small toes, or precious tits. I need a tad more to stimulate me.
Most sincere hugs,
~ Mark ~ That Guy ~
