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subject:Shaking my head....
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It is a proven fact that sex sells. It sells cars, it sells clothes, it even makes you friends.
It is obvious to most, that the picture I have up as my default pic right now is clearly not me. It is Raven Riley, a very popular porn star that can be googled any day of the week.

I have, over the last 10 days, alternated between her picture one day, and a picture of me the next day.
On the days I had my own picture up I may get between 5 and 15 new friend requests. (I have a blast going right now so that there is maximum exposure to all Fubarians)
When I put her picture up, I get between 60 and 125 friends requests in a day, lots of fubar gifts bought for me, propositions for marriage and other biblical activities in my shoutbox and fumail. Most of my blocked users come from the days I have had her picture up and someone decides to explicitly tell me what they would like to do with the girl in the picture. It usually involves their body parts and my mouth if you get the picture. YAK!
Let me give you a perfect example of how you can't get ahead being yourself...
My good friend Stephanie Lynn (here on Fubar) is currently ranked TOP SCORE with over 120 million FU Points, and yet she is still not in the top 100 legends or in the top 10 with a red name. No matter how many countless miliion cajillion dollars she has spent on here buying herself and others happy hours, blasts, vip's she is still JUST top score. She has chosen to be herself and NOT show too much of her stuff in an effort to get ahead, and that is all it has gotten her. That in and of itself is a shame. We all know, to get ahead, she will have to put up a porn star pic or start bending over and showing her goodies to all who wants to see. Hence, she is bored to death now on Fubar.
So...just to conclude my findings...I know to get ahead you either have to be someone else, or bare alot more of yourself than was intended to be shown on the internet to the whole world.
If you are a man on here, really looking to meet someone, date someone, etc....do you really want to get involved with a woman who has shown her goodies to every other man on here who wanted to see? You all seem to want to see it. You stop and stare like a wreck occurred. But when it comes to you, do you want your girl to show her stuff to people?
Go to your top tool bar and click on TOP, then MEMBERS and look at the red name people...see what got them there? Stephanie and others like Stephanie will never be there...and that's why.
The only 3 guys who were ever top 10 on Fubar only got there by using the pictures of women to get them rates and fans.
Of course those days are over. If you are in the top 100 you are required to use your own picture, not the picture of someone else to attract rates & fans.
The days I have used Raven Riley's picture, I wake up the next day to find myself ranked 22nd for the day, or 35th for the day- out of over one and a half million people (of which about a million are real and use thier profiles)
What's a girl to do?

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DF
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#20 of 20 -- April 21, 2008 @ 6:37 am
As another illustration of your point, consider
http://www.fubar.com/user/641995

"Baby treasure" sure looks a lot like the English actress / celebrity Jennifer Ellison. It seems unlikely she'd get her own birthday wrong, though (DOB 30 May 1983 and the above fubar page claims the owner is 25). I don't see any salutes either, which seems odd and would be the obvious way to address any cries of "fake"... What is supposed to happen about dubious identities like this?
PeggySue*treehu...
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Vicksburg, MS
#19 of 20 -- April 20, 2008 @ 6:25 pm
Thank you all for your comments. Today was one of those days i ranked in the top 100 because of a fake pic yesterday. Of course its back to my mugshot today and I have had less than 10 friend requests. I prove my own point 3 or 4 times a week. It really s a shame that the average woman is no longer good enough to turn heads.
Mamma T Luv 2 l...
United States
#18 of 20 -- April 20, 2008 @ 9:51 am
PeggySue you and Steph are very classy woman..and I am here to say you both rock and are 100% real..we luv you both!!!! Awesome bog
-rosco-bobbalou
Carthage, NY
#17 of 20 -- April 20, 2008 @ 9:21 am
sex says it all
crazymama45//AM...
 (Online)
Kingsport, TN
#16 of 20 -- April 20, 2008 @ 8:41 am
Sad, but true. Look at the site that we are on, though. It is owned by a male, and its very male dominated. I believe that the women that show their goodies to get somewhere in life, even on a website, are suffering from low self esteem. It takes more class to be yourself and to not show everything you have to get ahead than it does not to. I may be a big girl, yet, if i lost the weight, I still would not want to be ogled by the perverts that lurk on this site.
Kudos, Peggy, for posting this blog. I hope that many of the women that you spoke of will read this, and perhaps think more of themselves.
Buckeye Babe Ma...
Columbus, OH
#15 of 20 -- April 20, 2008 @ 8:29 am
yep sex sells its crazy but it does.....lmao
WillyMakit *FuB...
Winfield, KS
#14 of 20 -- April 20, 2008 @ 8:23 am
OK...I'll admit to being a male and the visual part of me is very much alive and well...BUT, as you mentioned...I would NOT want to meet someone that shows their "stuff" privately or publicly on the net or even to another man. It's a well proven fact that any relationship based on sex alone will NOT succeed...they usually may last for 2-3 years and then, poof, the party's over...
Not to say it isn't a very important part of a healthy relationship, just that if that's the foundation of the relationship, it's doomed to a short lived folly.
As far a Stephanie goes...all I can do is shake my head and ponder how shallow we as a society really are...I don't know her, other than being a recipient of her generosity, but I am truly happy that she has someone that appreciates her for who and what she really is...

Willy
CoyoteKat~Fu-Bo...
Birdsboro, PA
#13 of 20 -- April 19, 2008 @ 6:39 pm
It Is a Big Shame!!! So many times i have had my own pic up and then tried a sexier lingerie pic of another woman. Gee, i wonder which one got me more requests. Any ways Kudos Peggy Sue. It goes to show you what people would rather see.... NOT A REAL WOMAN!!! They Just want the porn pics of someone else. And i agree with Steph also. I am here for my friends and Family who are there for me!!!!! I Have a wonderful husband who gets to see all my goodies, he does not care if i choose to show them off or not, but they are just for him.
Stephanie Lynn
 (Bliss in NYC... w/ Mark & M$Dallas...)
New York, NY
#12 of 20 -- April 19, 2008 @ 5:18 pm
You know I love ya PeggySue and you know that you and I are on the same page here. This place does bore me now but I got what I came here for... some really good (and classy!) friends and a great man that likes that my goodies are for his eyes only! And he doesn't want to see anyone else's goodies either! GREAT blog.

Steph
Purplecat44
Lafayette, IN
#11 of 20 -- April 19, 2008 @ 2:09 pm
Well what do ya do?
Ride with it, if they are stupid enough to believe what they see, then they have a problem.
Anyway it is just a game, not real life.
Those guys who think it is more than a game or just plain entertainment, have a real problem.
So really you are doing a good thing here, finding the ones who you may not want to talk to much here.
The honest ones will ask you if that is you or, question it next time they see a different pic.
That is my opinion.
HOPIGALERIN&tra...
 (Fu.Independant.rateNfan?)
Niles, OH
#10 of 20 -- April 19, 2008 @ 1:53 pm
I know its sad even with my own pictures i know which ones work and which ones dont... no clevage no friend requests. Imma have to get a porn star pic n try this test out myself!
real concerned ...
Climax, MI
#9 of 20 -- April 19, 2008 @ 12:14 pm
and those males are total loosers
even the simple...
Fort Leonard Wood, MO
#8 of 20 -- April 19, 2008 @ 11:27 am
i agree and i was talking ot her when she first got here and all was good. i mean i didnt know who she was or anything she was using a diffrent name and once someone recongized her she didnt care and started posting her skins pics up now. one of the most ridiculous guys on here and you can easily find on every hot girls page is katman. she meet him and allot more came about same with most of the girls here. but i know what you mean and i fully understand. and i really dont talk to her cause she seems to not have time for those who dont care about those pics who just cares about talking to the person them self. most guys here dont care about nothing but the nudes here and will do anything and everything to get to a girls nudes. but hey its life now and there is really nothing anyone can do to change it
♫ ϗ...
Suffolk, VA
#7 of 20 -- April 19, 2008 @ 11:23 am
sorry its true but fortunately
i dont care about levels or points
just like friends and a soapbox to
air out my poems before they hit
the major page.

this place is good for confident
building before i am shot down
on the world's stage.

cause this world of Fubar
is not real. so why not
post an unreal picture
to gain an advantage. i post
an unreal picture for the reverse
Papi FuBaR BoUn...
 (One last kiss, before I gooo, dry your tears....)
Columbus, OH
#6 of 20 -- April 19, 2008 @ 11:13 am
It is a shame, but its how most guys are, i personally like your pics better
Jennicense *Sha...
United States
#5 of 20 -- April 19, 2008 @ 10:44 am
omg Peggy i so totally agree with everything you wrote. You have to show everything you have on here just to get f.a.r on here and it sucks. But i, for one, wont ever put up nsfw pics just to get ahead on here. I have some pics showing a little cleavage, but thats as far as it will ever go. So for all the girls out there that want to be on top on this site, better be willing to show all your goodies!
I Taste Life In...
United States
#4 of 20 -- April 19, 2008 @ 9:54 am
you are right....
sex sells and i am a poor man...lol
~Tee~*FU-Bomber...
 (BOMB CRAZYMAMA & JAIME)
Greenville, SC
#3 of 20 -- April 19, 2008 @ 9:23 am
.... exactly! And just being a male is a handicap in and of itself. The same women who either bare it all or use "cum-on" pics to get rates will totally pass my real picture by, but pour in by the hundreds (ok, i exaggerate...by the tens...lmao) over my fake cowboy pic. I have gotten quadruple friends and fans - 99% female - in the one month "cowboy" has been up over the 6 months all put together that my real pic was up. That combined with the fact that i don't have boobs or goodies to offer puts me, and every other male, at a real disadvantage here. So what's a male to do? I don't know, but as long as "cowboy" is working for me ~ he's staying.
Froggie's P...
Lakeland, FL
#2 of 20 -- April 19, 2008 @ 8:52 am
Sex always sells. Look at TV ads, plus.

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