First and foremost it's gonna take more than a cheesy pick up line to catch my attention. That being said, I am not the type of woman who learned how to be tactful. A character flaw... maybe but those who know there is no harm meant I just refuse to conform to the "typical" ideals of today. I'm me, you be you if you arent creepy and can handle adding me for me lets go!

On the other side of the coin, I'm not a calus woman that doesn't need things. I have come to learn that I don't like the women's femanism thing, it's hardening my daughter to "nice guys" and later in life if there are any left that is ultimately what she will want. I have had issues before with showing too much independance in the beginning of a relationship and when I have needed help, or wanted to drop the mechanical apron or let the man take hold of the situation they think I am joking.

I fully believe that men and women are each others counter part. If this wasn't the case men and women would have the same productiviy, linear thinking, or be ale to understand each other more. One should compliment the other without leaving room for error. Meaning the struggle is part of life,it makes us stronger allows for growth and improvement.

I come off as unapproachable in a bar setting, or while out meeting others, I don't mean to and dont want to believe that every man out there has been damaged so much by the women in their past that new love, or refound love isn't possible. Everyones been hurt don't hold it against me if I didn't do it! I know our walls are high,I'm holding out for that one that steps up willing to scale that wall or dig under it.