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created on 01/09/2013  |  http://fubar.com/advice/b352248

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Hello everyone who is viewing this I need some advice its a long story but if you have questions or do not understand something let me know so that you can piece together the puzzle and help me out. Here we go....

My brother began dating this chick her name Amanda. She and I could not stand each other but soon became friends. When I lost my best friend/ sister she was there for me.We talked alot had sleep overs went out all together it was a strong friendship until NOW.  that is the back ground of how we were.

Okay now for the whole dam story. Amanda told me back in Feb of 2012 that she may have been pregrant I was sooooooo excited when she was confermed pregrant in March. I was going to be an anuty. March and April and June and July she seemed to not be taking care of herself and the baby so one day we got into a fight about how she needs to grow up and take care of herself and not be selifish because she had a living being inside of her. She did not seem to care. Nov 13th she was support to be induced and she wasnt because according to her the docs wanted to wait a week or so to see if she would go into labor on her own. First sign that she was lying. Then Thanksgiving passes things are starting to not make sense she was saying the docs were worried about the baby but no action was taken so therefore that is the second sign she was lying Come Dec 2012 she tells us that the baby got his code around his neck and basically died inside of her. Talk about terrible. That same weekend she told us he passed we tried to get her to go to the ER she was not having it. So Dec 10th comes around we take her to the ER where they did the heart moniter and couldnt find anything. They did three ultra sounds and still nothing. So They took a pregrancy test and that came back Negitive. Third big sign of her lying. The docs did some blood work and comfurmed that she had not been pregrant for at least two months. So that means she lied for Oct Nov and Dec. So now the questions is was she pregrant to begin with?

Next my mom just found out the ultrasound photos online and her doctor is not a doc in the state. So what I need help with understanding and being able to move forward. She lied somewhere she lied. However my brothere wants to marry her in July of this year and want me to be in the wedding however I am not sure I can stand up for them and pretend that I am happy when one she lied to him and two she lied to me her best friend and three she lied and hurt everyone in my family. I do not know how to tell her how I am feeling without my brother getting mad at me and me losing him which is the last thing that I want right now. So what would you do if you were in this situation because I am running out of ideas. Killing her kindness is not working for me., PLEASE HELP

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