Hi. I am a 36 years old genuine gentleman male, not too fanatic but with a lot of openmindedness towards bdsm. As long as it goes with true respect for one within and others. I am highly educated (engineer) adore intellect and intelligence. As my mother tongue is not English, there might be errors so that's not a contradiction- and hey, I am too damn lazy to have it corrected with a dictionarry besides me. I'll take it as it comes. I do like to study but only in these moments I would be eager to find mistakes. Hey, I am not writing a novel...In daily life I work with lot of kundalini exercises, and I am practising towards massage/energy therapist. Further more I work with Crystals. I adore Enschede and sometimes visit it for a weekend, to visit friends, and go to the crystal grocery. I work as a project engineer in Indusrtrial Valves and handle all bigger and more complicated projects/cases. I have a race bike and go racing from time to time. I organise some spiritual trainings such as a retreat and a weekend of non-violent communication. As for music or hobbies, I like a lot and it would take us to far from the subject of things that might keep your interest alive.As for sexuality, I specialized myself particularly in Lust related feminin treats, orgasming, multi orgasming, Tantra techniques... I adore massage (both giving and taking), and now pressure points/techniques that might make your body Shiver untill you can't even scream anymore so intense. And I love to do it... female ejaculation is the next challenge, as it rathere poored out then squirted... but I trust it'll come to that . As for bdsm related, my biggest fetishes are pissing sex, anal seks. And the tantric techniques also work combined with anal... In fact, I am also specialized in anal and the orgasm only gets even intenser. On top of that I am open to a lot of things but I'll never be the extreme type. Spanking and blindfolds, nipple clamps, some humiliation, yes why not... but building an entire bdsm room well I would prefer to build my own massage practise room rather then bdsm room. But hey creativity without the room... In my opinion that is the top over a most beautifull bdsm room. If you would get interested... contact me.