Welcome to my little box in the fu-world! It isn't much but it's me just the same!

I'm a divorced mom of 4 beautiful children. they are 20, 18, 12 and 5 and they are my life... they are the only ones in this life that haven't hurt me...I have a BS in Business Administration... 4 grueling nights a week but I put myself through college with a 4 year degree in 3 1/2 years. I work in customer service for a Fortune 500 Company based out of Sidney, Ohio and have been there for 7 years now. That ladder is looking more attainable every day though!

I was born in Arkansas and grew up in a little town called Batesville... Yes, home of Mark Martin!! We actually were neighbors for a little while. Now both my nephews work at his dealership. I'm gonna get me a limited edition convertible Shelby someday too! Gotta dream big baby!

(I'VE COME TO THE CONCLUSION THAT I COULD WRITE ABSOLUTELY ANYTHING I WANTED TO IN HERE, WON A MIL IN THE LOTTERY, AND NO ONE WILL READ IT ANYWAY, )- LOL

I just ask one thing...I don't ask for much I don't think...stop throwing that love word around me with...I'm not gonna hook up and have a fling with you just because I have a naughty side...we all have one of those...we just all express it differently...I am for the most part a very private person...others would disagree and say how private can you be with these pics...well...I'm extremely private when it comes to my heart...Had it crushed way too many times...and yes I suppose it will be an extraordinary man that wins me over...as it should be...and I personally won't settle for anything less.

I WANT SOMEONE WHO DOESN'T THINK THEY HAVE TO BE SUPERMAN TO EVERY WOMAN. I WANT SOMEONE WHO CAN BE MY SUPERMAN..AND JUST MY SUPERMAN. HERE IS A REALLY AWESOME QUOTE THAT FITS WHAT I'M TRYING TO SAY TO A "T"....

“A true man does not need to romance a different girl every night, a true man romances the same girl for the rest of her life”

Always mean what you say and do what you say you are gonna do...not say what you think I want to hear or what fits the situation at the time. I'm just not going to play that game.

I'M A HUMAN AND I'M NOT PERFECT AND WOULD NEVER PRETEND TO BE. I'M HUMAN ENOUGH THAT THINGS HURT ME...OK GUESS A LITTLE PART OF MY HEART IS STILL ON MY SLEEVE--(NOTE TO SELF TO WORK ON THAT)...BUT I'M NOT GONNA SIT AND FEED YOUR EGOS UNTIL YOUR CUP RUNNETH OVER. ALL MY LIFE I'VE GIVEN AND GIVEN AND GIVEN AND DON'T GET BACK HALF. EVERYONE TAKES AND GIVES BACK VERY LITTLE. IT GETS OLD AFTER A WHILE. SO I YOU ARE JUST LOOKING FOR AN EGO BOOST...KEEP WALKIN!

I'M HERE BECAUSE I HAVE SUCH WONDERFUL FRIENDS. THEY KEEP ME GOING WHEN SOMETIMES I'D REALLY LIKE TO JUST DISAPPEAR. THOSE DAYS SEEM MORE OFTEN UNFORTUNATELY.. I'M NOT HERE TO SEE YOUR NSFW PICS- JUST BECAUSE I HAVE THEM DOESN'T MEAN I WANT TO SEE YOURS- I DIDN'T ASK YOU TO VIEW MINE, THAT WAS YOUR CHOICE. BUT I'LL TELL YOU ONE DAMN THING, IF YOU CAN'T CARRY ON A CONVERSATION WITH ME THAT DOESN'T INCLUDE SOME STUPID REMARK ABOUT MY BODY PARTS OR HOW MUCH YOU'D LIKE TO DO THIS OR THAT TO ME, YOU WILL GET BLOCKED FASTER THAN YOU CAN HIDE YOUR SCREEN FROM YOUR WIFE OR GIRLFRIEND!

********WHEN I DO CLOSE MY NSFW FOLDER STOP ASKING ME TO BE IN MY FAMILY-THAT'S A DEAD GIVE AWAY THAT YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A PIG AND I'LL BLOCK YOU****** I WILL NOT GIVE OUT MY YAHOO TO YOU SO STOP ASKING THAT TOO AND GET PISSED IF YOU WANT, BUT IT'S NOT A FUBAR RULE THAT I HAVE TO GIVE YOU MY PHONE NUMBER!!!!!!!!!! AND I DON'T CAM-- DON'T KNOW HOW MANY TIMES I HAVE TO SAY THAT!!!! BLOCK AND BLOCK AGAIN!!!
I'LL TREAT YOU AS WELL AS YOU TREAT ME, PLAIN AND SIMPLE!

I PAY MY OWN WAY THROUGH LIFE SO AT 39 IF I WANT TO POST SEXY PICS OF MYSELF, THAT IS MY RIGHT. IT IS NOT YOUR RIGHT TO BE A PIG TO ME. ===SORRY JUST CAN'T STRESS THIS ENOUGH


TRY TO REMEMBER THAT ACTIONS WILL ALWAYS SPEAK LOUDER THAN ANY WORDS EVER COULD...SO DON'T SAY YOU LOVE ME, DON'T SAY I'LL HELP YOU.. DON'T SAY I'M JUST HERE FOR YOU...IF YOU DON'T MEAN IT.. JUST SAY HI AND BE MY FRIEND...


“You don't love someone for their looks, or their clothes, or for their fancy car, but because they sing a song only you can hear.”---Ana Alas


"Women wish to be loved not because they are pretty, or good, or well bred, or graceful, or intelligent, but because they are themselves."

Henri Frederic Amiel
(Hey, I think he's on to something! )

Count the garden by the flowers, never by the leaves that fall. Count your life with smiles and not the tears that roll.
-- Author Unknown

Sometimes I wish I were a little kid again, skinned knees are easier to fix than broken hearts.
-- Author Unknown

In your memories you'll find me...


lilman

The way to love anything is to realize that it might be lost.


G.K. Chesterton

"Women might be able to fake orgasms. But men can fake a whole relationship."
- Sharon Stone ( haha SOOOOOOOOOO TRUE!)

Ok,enough of the quote corner-






~Love always~