Who am I looking for? I haven't a clue. Bonus points for independance, figure, cuteness, etc. I try not to make snap judgements of people because the internet puts too much wierd pressure up front. I would rather hang out casually until we both want to increase the frequency and duration of our meetings. My 50% child care situation has me tied down to a certain extent in my range but soon I will be fancy free. After that? who knows? As far as sex goes, at this stage of my life, I would not particularly enjoy being naked with someone I didn't know very well, but if that's what you need to relax, I won't decline. I'm not prudish, just a little more emotionally tied in. That said, we all know women are totally in control of that department. Yes, you are. You know it.