I am a true Picean,I am 26 and female, I go by the Nickname of Sel, or Selenas. I love beaches and sinking my feet into the wet sand, I am also a rock and gem hound when I get the chance, I have gotten a good bit of garnet while panning for gold in one of our local rivers some pretty nice in size if I do say so myself. And yes I do go gold panning to..it's just a hobby and I take joy in playing in rivers all day long lounging under the sun. I am a simple person and while I find some material items to be of fascination, I am a pretty frugal person. I am also a writter of Poetry, Short Stories, Erotica, and some not so short stories. And as much as I like to write I also like to read a pluthera of books and watch movies, especialy horror and comedy flicks. From time to time I can be a recluseive person and just enjoy my privacy. I am big on personal space, but also on the same note I like to be surrounded by friends from time to time. I am one of those people who can walk up to someone and talk to them and 20 mins later know their life story...people like to confess things to me, and I like to listen. From time to time I will give advice, though my advice comes more in the form of these are some of your options...and this is what I would do, but that's just me...and what ever you decide is your own decision not mine. Some times I feel like a priest or something.....