...i've read countless profiles, and most of you chicks online attract jerks, and party boys and drunks.. and u wonder why you can't meet anyone real or honest..well, bars, clubs and partys are not the place......only read mine if you're serious about a real friendship please..=========================================================================RIP Michael Jackson ..(August 29, 1958 – June 25, 2009)..80's King of pop forever!...~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~hello.. I'm Paul in Loveland...._________________________________________________MY STORY: ..my age is kind of a mystry, my real birth certificates got burnt up in a plane crash when I was a baby ..The flight was called Operation Babylift, after the Vietnam War ended.. orphan babies were ordered to be found and put on cargo planes and to be flown out to the USA.. and other countries for a better life and to be adpoted.. the story is online..My dad was an American soldier and my mom was vietamese..__________________________________________________- I love helping others when I can with relationships and personal issues, and the rewards and blessings that come with it, are endless.. so many marriages and relationships fall apart and falling apart as we speak now,..for so many reasons.. I need to write a book I swear lol..the fact is, it's a great gift and blessing from God, that I can help so many at anytime.. not only do I enjoy it, It's why I was put here on earth - I always get into long conversations, debates and discussions with this young generation about life, people, God,, etc, ..they need someone to lead them and tell them what really goes on in the world.. they are our future leaders.. and so many are lost these days..***************************************************Im a HUGE movie buff..and 80's guy! ..love all the hair bands! and glam rock..KISS, Def Leppard, Whitesnake, Firehouse, white lion, Cinderella, vixen.. it's endless!....I love the 80's hair bands!..and all the movies, shows, cartoons etc..grew up in New York, ..so i like all Ny sports teams.. GO YANKEES!..- my favorite sport to watch is football, pro and college, RAIDER NATION! I'm really not your typical guy.....I love chatting about God, life, relationships, and what goes on in this crazy world....I'm very passionate about alot of things, and I always have a lot to say.. but I'm also a good listener too ..and don't get me started about movies lol.. I can go on and on debating and discussing movies and what's out in theaters now...I love to pig out on chocolate, ice cream and pizza ..I just want a woman i can share a pizza with.. is that so much to ask? lol..I have 3 tats.. and i still hate needles lol..I been working out since I was in high school, so im in pretty good shape.. but don't let the muscles and tattoos fool ya.. I have a big heart ..message me anytime..i don't bite ___________________________________________________________________________________The 'do's and dont's of being online:1. the worst thing you can do is ignore someone and never return messages.. how can you sit there and fill these profiles out and say, "I want someone real and honest".. and than you ignore them? ..wow, that's lame..and wrong.2. don't judge anyone by thier pics,, pictures are decieving..and nothing beats at least talking to the person on the phone..3. ..apprently a lot of you shallow clueless woman online want to try and judge and label me "short, and "not a good match", without even getting to know me once... ...well guess what lil girls, it's your loss not mine.. so go ahead and learn the hard way and chose a drunken partier and player that's shallow like you, they won't stick around.. your loss not mine.. but don't you dare try to label and judge me..ever.. I have more self respect than most do..*** - here's a tip ladies: if you want someone real honest and faithful in your life, ..1) STOP FOCUSING ON PEOPLE'S 'LOOKS'..'Looks' fade and mean nothing.. that so called "attraction" you are looking for dies out quick.. go after someone's personality and heart.. ..2)and stop rejecting the nice honest unique ones, like me.. and 3) quit giving the players and bad boys a chance, none of them will ever stick around and be faithful to you.. time to wake up ladies.._______________________________